Chemistry of Love-How to identify a true Soulmate.


Due to requests have received have decided to pen down how you can truly identify your soulmate without a miss.

It has been a process of headache to young people. They keep asking “How do i know he/she is the one”

We are experiencing this drama  because youths fake success, inner self and true character. They operate on plastic life.

Being a Christian i will base my argument from the bible.

“21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man” (Genesis 2:22).

Oh yes! you heard. A woman is a body part extracted from a man, meaning the blood group is the same, Skin, Cells and even behavior because Man and Woman is one thing.

Just like your body parts coordinate so should be to partners in love. Just like your hand stretches to console an injured finger so be it in Marriage.

For you to know he/she is the one first you must experience fearless acceptance. Fearless acceptance means a sense of completeness when together.

Do you feel Complete and happy when you see your partner no matter how he/she is? Do you accept him/her the way God created him? if yes hold onto it. If you don’t feel comfortable with his/her weakness, you cant fully and happily accommodate, Kindly think twice.

Have you ever called your partner when you are tired shockingly to find he is tired too from a tedious exercise? Have you ever texted your partner while in bed to find he is in bed too but the two of you are far away from each other?

When your body decides to rest, all its body parts too rest. Since a man and woman are one body, at some point if you find yourself doing common tasks at the same time when apart, then know you have the right partner.

My body parts always coordinate to achieve a common goal. My hand will never touch what my mind is against. A true partner will always have one common agenda without self gain. I win we have all won. My hands will never willingly injure other body parts. Have you ever carried a knife and willingly cut off your nose? No. A true partner will always feel the pain of hurting you.

You will never abuse your body parts, You will never beat one of your body parts without feeling the pain. Your legs will never direct your body into thorns. So should a true relationship work.

A true soulmate is one you share common character just like my rib has the same blood group with my legs. My legs will carry along my hands in public and private no matter how ugly they may appear. So should a true partner do.

A true partner is a person you experience joy of satisfaction in your heart. You always feel complete when together.

The man said,“This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man.” (Genesis 22:23)

A true partner will never leave you because you denied him sex. There is more in life than sex. We tend to expect much that what real life can give us.

We want Mr perfect. We want Mr Rich….on Earth? Never. We have been fooled by Movies and soap operas. We have been overtaken by peer pressure.

When people hung around you because you have money or because you have 6 pack or because you have the best sitting allowance, Kindly name them as friends and do not engage them as soulmates.

Everybody needs somebody to lean on. Don’t ever conclude to have a true partner based on Emotions. They can deceive you if you don’t control them.

Get somebody who can easily control you. Excessive depression and aggression makes you vulnerable. Constant heartbreaks will horribly hurt your heart.

Do not allow your destiny to be fragmented. Be responsible, respondive and Reliable.

Have Spiritual Maturity,Knowlodgical Maturity, Emotional maturity,Financial Maturity and Intellectual maturity.

 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.” (Proverbs 18:22)

Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.” (Proverbs 19:14)

Give God a priority, Be true to yourself and others. Truly you will find your match.