Well i know ladies will throw tantrums on this but i must unmask it. Its an article have synthesized for decades now. Have been asking myself, Why ladies in the 21st century are piling up in ‘singleness’ environment. You ask them they will fake a smile and answer “Am proud to be single.” But is this the reality?
Ladies were created weak vessels meaning they must lean on somebody to be complete. Ladies are likely to share their private problems with the opposite sex and they feel completely relieved. True or false?
Lets face the reality and hold on a bit speculating. The best age for a lady to be married is latest 26 Years. Yes i mean 26. Hold on i will explain.
Men always want their ego. For this reason they go after ladies younger than them. Many go for at least 5 years below their actual years. This is what i mean, If a man is 30years, chances are he is likely to marry a lady who is 25 years. Bitter truth.
Now back to my sentiments. If a lady is 30 years, The husband marrying her is supposed to be how old?. You know, 35+. My sister at 25 and still no promising relationship, you should be panicking. Trouble God why he is not letting the singleness cup pass by you.
What kills many and in fact its a poisonous statement that every young woman should not even taste, “All men are Dogs.” Oh! yea….Then you are a puppy because your father was a Dog and dogs give birth to puppies.
The problem with our young ladies they over expect. What they see on movies, they want it exactly applied in real life situations. If it does not, they quit marriage calling men dogs along the streets.
You easily hear them “I want a man who is driving, Financially stable, a man who will pay my bills, Caring and loving.” My sister unless you are looking for a sponsor and not a real husband.
You waste the whole of your 20s looking for a single man who is driving, Built a good house etc. By the time you hit 30, you discover only sponsors can afford what you are looking for. The right men who should have married you, are happily married. Who will marry you at 30+? Unless you be lucky to find a late comer or simply a second wife.
Honestly speaking, as a man i cleared my fourth year at 23 years. I took 2 years tarmacking tattling to 25. At this level i can manage my small bills like rent, Food etc. I spend 3 years for masters at least to get promotion and increase my salary, totaling to 28 Years. Here i take a break from books to think about family. When did i drive, Build a good house you want, Invest as you claim etc?
Girls come back to your senses and stop dreaming………….