Ladies have adopted a system of branding all Men as Dogs. I dont know the reason but my guess is as good as yours. They claim men are professionals of hitting and run.
Men is this true?
Obvious you will say no.
Allow me to to help our ladies reason out on this. When a man walks out of your life after you have given him sex, have you ever asked yourself why? If two men run away from you, do you take time to meditate about your life?
21st Century young women are after Money and Beauty. They care less on Character and family. Men always look for character in women. Yes i said character. If your daily target is beauty, yes its on of the least considerations men look at in a wife but then you are losing it.
Sex dont and will never keep a man, it brands you as cheap. Real men always treasure and honour what they have taken time to sweat on, Not cheap.
Until a man is convinced you can keep yourself safe even if when he is far, then my dear you qualify to be a woman of substance. I know you will ask me how about men, yes i will address them later but lets deal with your issue first.
Apart from sex, what do you have to offer to your man? Can you support him spiritually,emotionally and even financially if need be or you are just eating and swelling in the house in the name of beauty.
A lady who is laid just after 30 mins ya kukatiwa to men she does not qualify to be a woman of character. He will brand you as cheap and he wont feel secure keeping you around. He will simply walk out after that sex.
Who told you that sex is a sign of Love? Love can exist without sex. Real women dont get laid in 2 days ya kukatiwa. All men are out there to try women. Even when they are not for it they just want to try you. That is their character. Kukatia katia is their daily bread.
They will always try. Men will always try anything in a skirt and if you easily give in, my dear dont blame anybody. Blame your self for being easily available.
Before you brand men as dogs, Examine your character. A lady worth keeping in life must be of self discipline. If you only offer sex, them my dear stop blaming men for using you. You just accept to be used.
If all men are dogs then you are a puppy because your father is also a dog.